Showing posts with label food for thought. Show all posts
Showing posts with label food for thought. Show all posts

Saturday, October 13, 2012

What it is...



Creative Criticism

This week  I learnt to appreciate creative criticism… sometimes u perceive things differently from others and u may not realize it cause of all the “hot air” you are getting from those around you..
 
A friend of mine had made a Display pic on bbm and I went on and told him how fat he was/looked and he was pretty much shocked wit my comment..i mean he musta thought he looked amazing hence him even cropping ppl out of his pic *giggles*… but then he retaliated and told me how I looked old and shady in mine *faints* as much as I should have been insulted I laughed it off cause  I never saw it that way.. 

Lol anyway.. what I learnt and wanted to share is that u can only grow if u see the positive in what others tell you weather good or bad.. You have to be open minded at all times thus allowing yourself to learn new things and coming out a better person than u were before..
Lol here z the pic…



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Monday, February 14, 2011

I warned y'all i would post some random ish..



Definition:Relationship

1. a connection, association, or involvement.
2. connection between persons by blood or marriage.
3. an emotional or other connection between people



Well i always think to my self. Why are people so interested in the most irrelevant things in relationships such as the physical appearance of their friend or family's' partner?
When people get into relationships they don't get into the relationship to date a person because of their physical appearance.. (as shown in the definition above).. relationships are mainly about emotional connections between two people..

I won't deny that once in a while i get judgmental and unfairly analyze certain relationships, but when i think further i ask my self would u rather be with someone who treats u right but is not the sexiest person alive.. or someone whose world evolves around them and you come last in everything they do yet u are meant to be their partner?

Most of u would vote for the first but yet you wouldn't practice it..

A perfect example is Beyonce and jay z. when people heard they were dating they were appalled that Beyonce would date jay z because he isn't the best looking guy. jay z unfortunately got a horrid nickname camel face.. People even went to the extent of saying that she is just in it for the money, but does it always mean when a person that is more blessed with looks than their partner is only in it for the money? 

My POINT is... Everyone deserves to be loved and everyone has the right to b with who makes them happy regardless of physical appearance or age difference :-)  so you keep loving the person you are with and keep out of other ppls business and  let them have their lil bit of happiness..